losing is good for you

Ashley's (highly controversial) New York Times essay on how the practice of constantly giving children trophies is hurting their psychological development. The response to this piece has been phenomenal: it has been shared almost 100,000 times on Facebook. She was asked to discuss the piece on a number of radio and television shows – even Stephen Colbert got in on the conversation.

AS children return to school this fall and sign up for a new year’s worth of extracurricular activities, parents should keep one question in mind. Whether your kid loves Little League or gymnastics, ask the program organizers this: “Which kids get awards?” If the answer is, “Everybody gets a trophy,” find another program . . . .